After the Battle of fights, usually more or less an insider feel hurt and disappointed with the enemy. So how to fight a little to the worst consequences?
Absolutely not say anything intentionally to offend or hurt your partner
When angry, people often tend to say something to hurt the enemy the satisfaction of feeling we want to win themselves. But when the anger passes, they will often feel very sorry about words came. We not only do not solve your problem has caused controversy, but both can remove the trust and respect for each other that you both.
Not say whether any further reason
Just as above, when angry, it is easy to talk to, shout obscenities to help frustrated. But again the results are bitter than you think. Your life will be difficult to forget that moment, and your image will be damaged greatly.
Calm and still keep his image for no matter what is frustrating to you to do. These things can only benefit you only.
Think about what makes you really angry is: Is it him or is it different?
Sometimes you frustrated because something like stress, money, health, jobs ... But then pour on top of your life. When you are angry and arguing with your partner, try to rethink what really is what makes her angry. Did he do something that made you unhappy or are for other reasons. Do not let your partner have suffered the rage for reasons not caused by him slightly.
Who remembers who you are talking
When arguing, it is often regarded as a second enemy offensive, even enemies. What you need to do is remember that it is your spouse, who is always with you when hard, the person you once loved and always love you ... This will help you know how to control anger and behave better.
Do not rush to conclusions and accused
One of the biggest mistakes that couples make is easy to accuse your partner is not sure whether this is the case no. The wrongly accused may make him / her hurt and lose trust in you. So, before you do not have clear evidence of something, do not conclude anything.
Always think of your children
The debate affects not only the two of you, but also adversely affect the child. If two of you learn how to solve the dispute peacefully or have a culture, you will also help their children realize that: Everything can be solved if calm and mutual respect. Not arguing that proved to be intimidating and rude ....
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